Tips or Trends Tuesday: Trend: Get your game on!

Good morning all! Here in America, yesterday was Memorial Day. My fiance, son, and me visited our local cemetery to place pennies on the graves of those who served in our country’s military. Why pennies? It’s an old tradition in which you not only pay your respects to the deceased, but to let the loved ones of the deceased know that their loved one was visited. My kiddo decided he wanted to use his pennies instead of Mom giving some to him, a very sweet gesture I think. Here are a couple of pics from our day:

Today’s Tips or Trends Tuesday brings us a fun reception trend: lawn games. Gone are the days of guests sitting ’round their assigned tables waiting until the dancing is over to get to the cake cutting. Many guests don’t dance. It’s just not their thing. What to do when your crowd isn’t in to dancing? Games!

If your venue has a bit of lawn to utilize, I highly recommend the purchase, rental, or making of lawn games, board games, or even ridiculously over sized game classics. Mr. Wondermous and myself will definitely be using riding the game trend. While I am a dancing fool, Mr. Wondermous isn’t so enthused with hours of forced dancing as well as many of our guests. Why hearken back to the old days when you placated your guests with Jordan Almonds whilst they wait out the dancing in anticipation of the cake when you can have a great time playing giant Jenga? Trust me, skip the dental emergency inducing confections and go for the ginormous Connect Four.

Here are some great lawn game ideas for your reception. If you are considering having games at your fete, what are your faves?

Top to bottom l to r: croquet, ring toss, corn hole, giant jenga, skittles, Rock Band video game set up

wedding games 1

Top to bottom l to r: badminton, bocce ball, connect four, lawn golf, checkers, horseshoes

wedding games 2

Stay tuned tomorrow for an awesome real wedding!

Memorial Day

Source: http://digg.com/news/politics/memorial_day_in_case_you_thought_it_was_national_bbq_day

Memorial Day is upon us and I wanted to provide you with a bit of inspiration. Memorial Day is the time where we in the United States remember our men and women who have died in military service and was first enacted to honor Union soldiers who fought in the American Civil War. Members of the Veterans of Foreign Wars take donations for poppies leading up to Memorial Day and the poppy’s significance comes from a poem written by Canadian physician and Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae after he witnessed the death of his friend Lieutenant Alex Helmer who was only 22 years old.

Here is that poem as it was first published on December 18, 1915 in Punch magazine:

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved, and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

I come from a family who have several generations of men and women who have served in the American military. On this day, I remember not only those who have fallen in battle, but those who have served and are still serving in the military as well as their families. While it is important to remember those who have passed on, it is extremely important to remember those who served their country, those who continue to do so, and their families who all make great sacrifices to ensure the protection of our country.

This Memorial Day, I ask you not to merely look at Memorial Day simply as a day off from work, school, or as a reason for a BBQ. I ask you to say a prayer in your own way for our military both past and present as well as their loved ones. Take some time to go to a parade, visit a cemetery and place a flower at the grave of a fallen soldier who may no longer have living relatives to honor their memory, thank a veteran, donate to the Veterans of Foreign Wars and wear your Buddy Poppy proudly, tell your children what it means to be in the military, fly the American flag or place a wreath of red poppies on your door, read the poem above at your family BBQ, pray for our military and their families, and enjoy yourselves to the fullest.

Let us not forget our four-legged companions that have served as well:

Source: http://tippinthescales.wordpress.com/2012/05/26/a-memorable-dogably-day-52/memorial-day-dog/

Memorial Day activity: place coins on the graves of military men and women. Here is a great article that talks about the meaning behind each denomination of coins. I am taking my kiddo to our local cemetery to place as many pennies as we can on the graves of our fallen military.

Saturday’s Latest: The latest and greatest from the Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team

Hello and a happy weekend to you! Here is a bit of the latest creations from Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team Members. The collection of talent we have never ceases to amaze me.

‘Latest from the Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team’ by ravengrrl

The latest and greatest in weddings from the Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team.


Wire crochet earrings,Freshw…
$137.00

Bead embroidery Cuff,Bridal …
$125.00

Wire crochet earrings,18k Go…
$137.00

White Beaded Necklace with w…
$177.00

Purple tulips bridal bouquet…
$55.00

Mens Silk Jacket. 39S Vintag…
$41.95

Linen Sport Coat. Vintage Li…
$41.00

natural silk bridal shawl
$200.00

Custom Wedding Suit – Silk
$1155.45

Bridal Garter – Wedding Gart…
$55.00

Seersucker Clutch Purse with…
$70.00

Wedding Signing Pen / Guest …
$13.00

Personalized metal gift tag …
$9.00

Boutonniere Red / Aubergine …
$25.00

Tiffany Blue White Bow Weddi…
$164.00

Bridal Flower Hair Accessory…
$39.00

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‘Latest from the Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team 2′ by ravengrrl

Week of 5/26


Marie Antoinette Pink Parisi…
$150.00

Goddess Ring – milky Aquamar…
$550.00

Wedding veil – Cassie – 2 la…
$43.00

Sterling silver meditation …
$236.00

mostly yellow sewn paper cir…
$14.00

Unity Sand Ceremony Kit for …
$40.00

Wedding Dress 1920s Vintage …
$679.00

Satin and lace cluster brida…
$68.00

Tulip Henna Votive Holder, H…
$19.99

Pearl Wedding Earrings, Pear…
$32.00

Deer Antler Titanium Wedding…
$995.00

Hydrangea personalized weddi…
$18.00

30 Real Preserved Orchid Flo…
$35.00

New Tree-Bark His and Hers S…
$64.99

Bridal Mini Cape Faux Fur Wh…
$135.00

Birch Bark Vase with Cream/I…
$112.00

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I hope you all have a lovely weekend and for those of us in America, please remember that Monday isn’t National BBQ Day, but a day to remember those who have given their life in military service. A nice way to honor them, light a simple candle in their memory and make it part of your party. I also wish to say a big thank you to our veterans and their families as well as active and reserve duty military for your service.

Friday’s Favorites: Braided Dos, Oh My Goth, and Berrylicious Treasuries

WOOT! Happy Friday everyone!

On today’s Friday’s Favorites, I have some really cool Etsy finds for you base on this week’s posts. If you are wanting a fabulously braided hairdo for your wedding, but don’t want to deal with the hassle of growing your hair out or paying big bucks at a salon, there are several shops that specialize in braided hair pieces and extensions. Puppy Cat Meow (an Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team member) in addition to their stock pieces, also does custom orders. Tuesday was World Goth Day and there were a lot of posts dedicated to those of us with a goth aesthetic (start here). I’ve pulled some gorgeous gothic and gothic inspired bridal gowns and some classic red, black, and white goth wedding bits and bobs for you. Finally, some berrylicious wedding items sure to set off your summer fete.

Tomorrow, I will be introducing you to one of our latest Etsy Virtual Bridal Show Team members, Samantha Sultana. Here’s a preview for you:

Enjoy your weekend and for us Americans, don’t forget to honor our fallen military folk and their families.

‘Braided Dos’ by ravengrrl


Hair extension hair accessor…
$86.00

medieval renaissance wedding…
$40.00

Tribal Fusion Belly Dance be…
$165.00

wedding bridal hairpiece hai…
$68.00

F E A T H E R braid /synth…
$6.00

R A I N B O W large fishtai…
$85.00

F I S H T A I L braid synth…
$19.00

F I S H T A I L braid/ lawl…
$19.00

CUSTOM-MADE PLAIT hair fille…
$22.00

PEACOCK HAIR FALLS faery tri…
$48.00

GOTH steampunk HAIR FALLS Tr…
$95.00

Double PLAIT coroner crown t…
$40.00

Number 25/27 Handmade Custom…
$55.00

Handmade Number 50 Custom Bl…
$55.00

Custom Fairy Tale Pigtail Br…
$48.00

Raven Hair Braid- sold indi…
$24.00

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‘World Goth Day: Here Comes the Bride’ by ravengrrl

World Goth Day was May 22nd.


Black Wedding Dress Gothic W…
$1650.00

Magical Corseted Fantasy Fai…
$1800.00

Camellia Bustle Gown in Velv…
$209.00

Steampunk Bustle Wedding Dre…
$850.00

Red Chiffon Dracula’s Br…
$300.00

Custom made Chrisst hand mad…
$1250.00

Dance all night gown corset …
$410.00

The “Fleur De Lis”…
$2195.95

Gothic victorian wedding dre…
$599.00

Gothic Fairy Medieval or Ren…
$1450.00

Cara Mia
$204.00

waist corset skirt Golden Me…
$95.00

wearydreary mummy ragdoll dr…
$219.00

Wedding Dress Designer Inspi…
$995.00

Custom Size plum and black b…
$325.00

Bellatrix – Bridal Custom Go…
$1450.00

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‘Word Goth Day: Classic Red and Black Nuptials’ by ravengrrl


PERSONALIZED Gothic Wedding …
$2.55

Vintage Wedding Invitation S…
$2.75

Necklace Gothic dreams
$99.00

SALE Ooak Art Sculptures – M…
$70.00

Gothic Diva Armwarmers, Blac…
$30.00

Black Lace Garter and Lace C…
$89.00

Dramatic bolero high collar …
$35.00

Gothic Black Cathedral weddi…
$29.99

Eternal Dreams – gothic Taxi…
$275.00

Swarovski Crystal Bridal Bou…
$350.00

Raven Black Bird Boutonniere…
$16.95

Brooch, Pearl, Feather, or C…
$75.00

Feather Fascinator Black Bir…
$64.99

Dark Tree Wedding Invitation…
$6.00

Gothic wedding bouquet red b…
$150.00

Wedding Guest Book Gothic vi…
$79.00

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‘Berry Good Wedding’ by ravengrrl


Strawberry wedding-Bridal bo…
$44.00

DEPOSIT for nickname custom …
$20.00

Boutonniere, organic element…
$15.00

Summer Strawberries. Red Vin…
$198.00

8 Berry Baskets – Teacher Gi…
$5.00

Mixed Berry Pie in a Jar, Un…
$7.50

Dinah Invitation, RSVP Card …
$5.00

Vintage Wood Farm Berry Boxe…
$12.00

Blackberry Merlot Mulled Win…
$10.00

SANGRIA DANCE Set of Two Han…
$45.00

Gumpaste berries with wires …
$9.99

Paper bouquet Bridal flowers…
$152.25

STRAWBERRY FIELDS Banner Bun…
$22.00

Handmade Linen Handkerchief …
$34.00

Red Silk Wedding Garter, Yel…
$24.00

Summer Strawberries: 12 Dai…
$30.00

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Theme Thursday: For the love of berries

Today’s Theme Thursday is inspired by my dear friend, Mary. We met in college living on the same wing in the dorms and have been good friends these 18 years (our age is showing…lol). We had a blast in our younger years and since then, Mary has become a food revolutionary. Please indulge me as I give you a little background and a little bit on why Mary inspired this post and myself.

Mary co-owns Miracle Mountain Farm in Cookeville, TN. Her produce is “grown using only natural organic methods and only purchase seeds and other growing products from companies that are committed to sustainable and non-genetically modified agriculture. As members of this community, we believe very strongly in supporting local business and creating an environment on our farm and in our market that fosters the fulfillment of the potential we see all around us. As farmers, we are compelled to work toward food security within our region by empowering others to become more independent through stewardship.” -http://www.facebook.com/grownlocal76/info

In addition, Mary keeps all of us up to date on current events facing the agriculture industry such as the corporate exploitation of our American food supply. She doesn’t just own a farm, she lives to help her local community and our country take back control of what we put in to our bodies through direct action: Petitions, calls to government, disseminating information to the public. I for one have learned so much through her action that my family has changed the way we eat. In the main, we purchase food goods that are all natural and preferably organic from companies with sustainable practices and that do not use GMOs. The more we all support efforts like Mary’s Miracle Mountain Farms, we will see a food revolution in our country that is well overdue.

What in the world does this have to do with weddings? Well, we all know that Eco-conscious and sustainable living is on the rise and is thankfully fast becoming the norm. This has created a mini-revolution in the wedding industry. Designers are using organic and sustainable fabrics in their creations more than ever. Caterers that provide natural, organic, and local food are seeing a boom in their business. Florists and Floral Designers are also going organic and sustainable as well. If you believe as I do, ones convictions are not dismissed, even for a wedding.

So, here is my ode to Mary as I hear there are berries up at Miracle Mountain Farms. Thanks for indulging me and take care all!

For the love of berries

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Break today

Took a break from the blog today due to doc appointments.

Celebrating World Goth Day: Inspiration, Real Weddings, and Styled Shoots

Well, you’ve reached the last post for today and I am sure you’ll be inspired with lots of dark wedding goodness. First, I have included a few of my goth inspiration boards followed by links to some of my favorite real goth weddings. Finally, there are three links to what I feel are some of the best gothic inspired styled shoots out there.

I hope you have found a bit of goth inspiration for your own dark nuptials. Happy World Goth Day!

Belle Memorie Inspiration Boards
Red and black goth inspiration
Blue and Black goth inspiration
Memento Mori inspiration
Beetlejuice inspiration
Green and black goth victoriana

Links to real goth weddings:
Rock N Roll Bride: The bride’s dress in this wedding is AMAZING!
Rock N Roll Bride: A gorgeous couple and on gorgeous gothic bouquet.
Offbeat Bride: This wedding has details galore. Love it!
Gothic Wedding Planner: Take a classic freak show and Day of the Dead, throw it in a blender and you’ve got this bit of eye candy. I love the flying bats cake topper.
Wedding Skulls: A goth fairytale wedding, complete with horse drawn carriage.

Links to goth wedding styled shoots:
Junebug Weddings:
SO much to love in this styled shoot. The tablescape is gorgeous!
Toast of Leeds: A swoon worthy styled shoot based on Dark Shadows. I can’t even begin to articulate how fabulous this shoot is. Part One, Part Two
When Geeks Wed: A video gothic circus shoot. Lots of very cool details.